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Sunday, August 11, 2013

Trying To Seek BALANCE In Life


Yesterday I came to a realization that lately my life felt a little unbalanced. I am a firm believer that you have to have a well balanced life.

By balanced I mean, spiritually, mentally, and physically. All of these areas must be fed equal proportions throughout the day. At least as closely as you can get to equal.

I decided I would try to be more balanced yesterday, I read my morning devotional, had prayer time. 

I worked out in the yard for a little physical activity. 

But the most precious time was spent with my husband listening to a beautiful song he had found that touched his heart, and he wanted to share it with me.

You see music is very important in our home. My husband has a wonderful singing voice so music touches our hearts deeply.
 
I immediately realized when the song started that it was a precious moment, not only with my husband but with my God. 

You see this song stirred up emotions of gratitude for all the moments, and all the beauty God has given me to see in my life time.

I don't know if it will hit the same cord with you or not, but I feel it is definitely worth sharing today........


 

 
 

Friday, August 9, 2013

What's On Your Radar?

 


You all know I am a planner!  I see certain items that will stay on my radar for a long time before I actually formulate a plan to work them in my budget, life, or room.

Today I am going to show you a few things that are on my radar for the future……
White lacquer; antique gold oversized ring pulls; steel glides.
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Worlds Away Jared Navy Desk
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Both are pricey but well worth the wait or who knows I might find something along the way that is close. I told you I am a planner and a patient  planner  as well.

Custom Bobbin Chair in a great contemporary wake-up fabric.

A bobbin chair has been in my radar for longer than I can remember and I will have one someday!!!
Mary McDonald Collection Table Lamp design by Robert Abbey
This gorgeous, classic lamp is by none other than Mary McDonald. It needs to come and live at my house and it also needs to bring it’s twin. I want two!!

herringbone floors

Herringbone floors! Gorgeous is all I have to say!! Not only in wood but in tile as well……

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would love to have some gas lanterns
Gas lanterns remind me of the charm of Charleston. I am not sure this will ever show up on the front of my house, but it is in the back of my mind, only to be brought forth if the opportunity ever arises!

Do you all have things that are on your radar?

 What would you get if you could get it right now?

Happy Friday, May your dreams live on!!
 
 

Wednesday, August 7, 2013

You Have Permission To NOT Make Your Bed Today

 

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You are going to love me today!! I am giving you all permission to NOT make your bed today!

Seriously, I am!! I even have a good reason for you to NOT make your bed.

I know this  is contrary to everything we were taught as children. At least if you lived in my house the bed had to be made before any fun for the day was going to happen.

Everything I have  ever read on how to keep a tidy home has told me that one of the things to do is…. “Make your bed everyday!”

unmade bed chart

Not only is it on the chart, but is almost always #1!
So how in the world can I give you permission to not make your bed? Keep reading…..

 
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Author Cheryl Mendelson said the following:

"Each day when you arise, air the bed. Open the windows, if possible; throw the bedcovers back over the foot of the bed. (If the bedding will otherwise drag on the floor, stand a chair at the foot of the bed to support it.) Let the bed stand this way, unmade, while you shower and eat breakfast. The bed should air for at least an hour if you are going to work, or even longer if you are staying home. This helps immensely toward keeping the bed feeling and smelling fresh until you next change the sheets."

Now here is the why you are getting permission to not make your bed!

"While you are sleeping, you breathe about two pounds of moisture, along with breath odors and flocks of microorganisms, into the air, your pillow and your bedding. You also perspire, perhaps a cup's worth, and exude skin oils and body smells. And you use up the room's oxygen and replace it with exhaled carbon dioxide. When there are two or more people in the bed or the room, these effects are multiplied. All this explains why, if you sleep with closed windows, the room has a characteristic stale morning smell (although you might not perceive it until you leave for a few minutes and then return.) Unless you leave the bedcovers pulled down and the windows open for an hour or two, the moisture you have left in the bed either does not evaporate or evaporates very slowly, which makes for an environment in pillows and mattress in which dust mites, molds, and other microbial life have more of an opportunity to multiply. Opening the windows lets in new air to dilute the pollutants (microbial and particulate), carry them off, and bring in fresh supplies of oxygen."

Who knew?
I don't know about you, but after reading that, I am a believer in NOT making my bed everyday! 

Unmade beds really don’t look that bad, trust me, I do it almost everyday. Let me show you my unmade bed right after getting up, and then look at the after, still not totally made up, and it is airing out nicely and I even gave it a spritz of linen spray….

(Remember both images below show an unmade bed, the one on the right is how it looks while airing out and the one on the left is how it looks when we get up. The one on the right is neat and tidy, but still allows air to get to the bedding.)

Ribbet collage UNMADE BED BEFORE AFTER



See it is not so bad!

My bed all made up for the rest of the day!!

I like what  Erma Bombeck said……..

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Here is one more little quote that I will leave you with…

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Now go un-make your bed and let it air out!!!